I can’t do without these three products during the winter seasons.

Powdered shampoo: For second day hair when I don’t feel like getting my hair wet in this cold weather! (not recommended for dark hair)

100% goat’s milk: Say goodbye to dryness before you step out of the shower. It’s a kind of never-going-back-to-anything-else kinda product. Yup, It’s that good. (several online retailers were sold out! Just look for 100% goat’s milk soap)

Hempz lotion: Say hello to lasting moisture after you step out of the shower. I haven’t found anything better. Thanks Mona from Center for the Healing Arts for this discovery!

I just read this interview of Miuccia Prada, the woman behind the the label. She amazes me! Forthright and pretty blunt. Here’s my favorite part:

It’s what I say all the time to my girls in the office here: The more they dress for sex, the less they will have love or sex. These girls throw away so much energy in this search for beauty and sexiness. I think that the old rules were much more clever and better than the rules now…

With women, the more unhappy they are, the more undressed they are. This is true. Dignity’s another very important part of this. Sex and the City is the opposite of dignity. You have to have dignity for your body—this is with men and women. You need to have dignity towards how you are, how you dress, how you behave. Very important. Men are always much more dignified than most women…

Because women have the stress of being beautiful, of age and youth. Men don’t have all that. And with women, that stress causes a lot of mistakes and bad choices—a lot of not being their true self.

I guess for women, we have to ask ourselves who we dress for, and why we dress the way we do. I think to some degree, all heterosexual women dress to attract men. On that note, the question I pose now is, what kind of men do we want to attract?

Regina Schmiedike also wrote an article about this topic: “In Modesty and Beauty – The Lost Connection.” She says,

For one thing, I think we are profoundly, tragically ignorant of the great allure and splendor of modesty. Men have told me that a girl in a becoming, modest dress was ‘a breath of fresh air,’ ‘just delightful to be with.’

I know this is a fashion blog and I love fashion, but these articles got me thinking about the role that fashion plays in attracting certain kind of men. Modesty… not something fashionistas talk a lot about, but it’s something to think about! Have a great weekend!

Kristin Cavallari in a Kimono Style Dress
Jessica Alba at runway show

Jessica Alba at runway show

I think this is one of my New Year’s resolutions: Start a hat collection! So far, I love these hats:

The fedora. So gorgeous on Giselle:

or this girl:

The newsboy cap (I call it a london cap)

The gatsby hat (I call it a grandpa hat)

Me in a grandpa hat:

The slouchy beret

For your viewing pleasure!

My favorite thing to wear at holiday parties is black lace! This post is basically just a bunch of inspiring black lace dresses from the runway and around the web. Black lace over bare skin, showing the contrast between the black floral designs and the color of the skin just makes me happy!

One from the Balmain show. Love the 3/4th sleeve. Wish it wasn’t so short!


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Right now, aside from tiny floral prints, I’m loving all things romantic, light colored, flowy, and drapy.
I feel all twitterpated with this dress! And it even has a focal point. love. love. love it.

The ChoppaSticks Vintage

Sooo cute.

They have a very cute couple blog too!

Whether it be lace or just sheer fabric, I love it. This dress makes me feel oh-so-very-girly.

Thriftwares

I love these women. Here’s what they have to say about what it means to be a woman of style.


Audrey Hepburn-

“My look is attainable. Women can look like Audrey Hepburn by flipping out their hair, buying the large sunglasses, and the little sleeveless dresses.”

“I never think of myself as an icon. What is in other people’s minds is not in my mind. I just do my thing.”

Marilyn Monroe-

“I’m very definitely a woman and I enjoy it.”

“I don’t know who invented high heels, but all women owe him a lot.”

“I don’t mind living in a man’s world as long as I can be a woman in it.”

Billy Wilder on Marilyn: The luminosity of that face! There has never been a woman with such voltage on the screen, with the exception of Garbo.

(I remember listening to an interview of a woman who played a small role in one of her movies. She said that Marilyn has the perfect combination of innocence and sexiness. When I heard that, I was like, that’s exactly what she has going for her!)

Coco Chanel-

Dress shabbily and they remember the dress; dress impeccably and they remember the woman.

Fashion passes, style remains.

In order to be irreplaceable one must always be different.

A girl should be two things: classy and fabulous.

Don’t spend time beating on a wall, hoping to transform it into a door.

The best color in the whole world, is the one that looks good, on you.

Elegance is not the prerogative of those who have just escaped from adolescence, but of those who have already taken possession of their future.

A woman is closest to being naked when she is well dressed.

I don’t understand how a woman can leave the house without fixing herself up a little – if only out of politeness. And then, you never know, maybe that’s the day she has a date with destiny. And it’s best to be as pretty as possible for destiny.

Luxury must be comfortable, otherwise it is not luxury.

Elegance does not consist in putting on a new dress.

Fashion is made to become unfashionable.

Fashion is architecture: it is a matter of proportions.

A style does not go out of style as long as it adapts itself to its period. When there is an incompatibility between the style and a certain state of mind, it is never the style that triumphs.

Elegance is refusal.

I love luxury. And luxury lies not in richness and ornateness but in the absence of vulgarity. Vulgarity is the ugliest word in our language. I stay in the game to fight it.

Look for the woman in the dress. If there is no woman, there is no dress.

Some people think luxury is the opposite of poverty. It is not. It is the opposite of vulgarity.

It is the unseen, unforgettable, ultimate accessory of fashion that heralds your arrival and prolongs your departure.

Innovation! One cannot be forever innovating. I want to create classics.

I was the one who changed, it wasn’t fashion. I was the one who was in fashion.

A fashion that does not reach the streets is not a fashion.

In fashion, you know you have succeeded when there is an element of upset.

Jeanne Lanvin-

Women were meant to wear clothes of unabashed femininity.

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